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What It Means When You Think of Someone Other Than Your Partner

What It Means When You Think of Someone Other Than Your Partner

Thinking of someone else isn’t cheating! It’s either the point before you decide to cheat, or the point in which you simply question your relationship, but know not to cheat. If both explanations sound bad, it’s because they aren’t the best of situations to be in.

Ten steps to follow to help make up your mind :

#1 Reflect on your relationship honestly. 

#2 Reflect on this other person.

#3 Put two and two together: does the intruder plug the holes found in your relationship?

#4 Think hypothetically: if there weren’t major issues in your relationship, would this other person even be relevant?

#5 Think realistically: who do you speak to the most, and who do you want to speak to them most? 

 #6 Now that you’ve got all the details in order, pick one person.

#7 Come clean to your partner.

#8 Take a break for a few days, not to do anything stupid, but let the dust settle and think of solutions.

#9 If you decide to move on with the other person, break things off in the best way you possibly can, and don’t judge, blame, or berate your ex.

#10 Don’t feel terrible, you did what was right either way.

Thinking of someone else while in a relationship is one of those things that happens in most relationships at least once. If you love your partner, don’t be mortified, be motivated to change and take this as a warning. If you no longer love your partner and move on with the other person, make peace with yourself and your ex.

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Written by Harry Rosen

Harry Rosen is an accomplished explorer, photographer, creative director, speaker, and author.

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