This is something that happens all too often. You find out a friend or acquaintance likes you, but you don’t have strong feelings one way or the other. What do you do?
#1 Don’t avoid the situation. By all means, take some time to think it over and see what you want to do, but don’t just let her sweat wondering how you feel. That is unfair and slightly cruel, especially if she is the one that told you how she feels.
#2 Do you want to be dating? Before even indulging in the idea, consider whether or not you want to be dating. Are you recently out of a relationship? Are you sort of dating someone else? Are you overwhelmed at work?
This girl deserves to know the truth whichever way you go, so you should be aware of what you want before talking to her.
#3 Tell the truth. As always, the truth will set you free. So tell it. Tell her if you like someone else. Or tell her you are flattered, but never really thought about her that way. But also let her know what you want to do.
Tell her you want to remain friends. Or tell her you’re interested in a date to see where things could go. Just make sure she understands. Don’t tell her you 100% like her back if you’re not sure.
#4 Give it a chance. If you can’t make up your mind, ask her out. But once again let her know that you are not promising a relationship because you aren’t sure how you feel and want to get to know her better. You do not want to get her hopes up.
#5 Tell her you need time. Perhaps you aren’t ready to go on a date. Tell her the door isn’t closed, but you aren’t ready to start anything. Make sure she knows you are not expecting her to wait for you. If you are ready and she is available, you’ll reach out.
Hopefully, this helped you with any decision to when it comes to knowing what to do when a girl likes you. Girls are not the only complicated ones when it comes to romance and dating. Your feelings can be, and usually are, just as confusing. So take your time, see how you feel, and enjoy the ride.
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